Free dating appLet’s get to know each other makes room for a real conversation: no ads, subscriptions, credits or message fees. Creating a profile, searching, sending invitations, chatting and planning a meeting are free. You can start with your own message without first waiting for a mutual like.
Focus on the person on the other side and get to know each other at your own pace. You choose whom you talk to, and both people must agree to a meeting. Tolerance, privacy and safety are the foundations of our community for adults in Europe. We keep developing the service.
Why choose our free dating app
Every feature. Free forever.
Every community feature is and will remain free, however much we grow. No subscriptions, credits or advertisements in chat. We do not earn money from this community. We fund servers, safety and development ourselves, because bringing people together is our passion.
A conversation with a person
We do not use bots pretending to be interested conversation partners. You send your own invitation and the recipient decides whether to continue. Demonstration profiles are clearly labelled. Sending limits and moderation help prevent spam and fake accounts.
Meetings that both people agree to
Use the meeting option in your conversation, suggest a time and select a public venue from the available list. We check newly proposed venues and addresses before making them available. Both people must agree; the other person receives the address details after accepting.
Private messages and specific reports
Conversations are private and messages are stored encrypted. You can report any received message and identify a particular sentence in your report. Moderation receives the reported message needed to assess the issue.
Automatic filters against abuse
Filters stop prohibited links, bank account details and contact information, including recognisable disguised forms. This makes spam, attempts to obtain money and moving contact outside the service harder. A message blocked by the filter does not reach its recipient.
Tolerance, moderation and ongoing development
Respect comes first. Harassment, impersonation, spam and scam attempts are not accepted. You can immediately block contact and report a breach; moderation can block profiles that break the rules. We keep improving the service and its protections.
How conversations and charges work
| Service | Conversations and access model |
|---|---|
| Meet & Connect · IntiemComfort | Free profiles, search, invitations, chat and meeting planning. No ads, subscriptions or credits. Private messages are stored encrypted; every received message can be reported. Meetings require both people’s agreement. Every community feature is and will remain free, however much we grow. No subscriptions, credits or advertisements in chat. |
| Tinder | Standard chat is free after mutual matching. Optional paid features include Priority Likes. Priority Likes |
| Bumble | Basic matching and messaging are free. Optional plans include features such as advanced filters and Notes. Boost / Premium |
| Badoo | Starting a chat directly from Discover requires verification and Credits. This describes that particular feature. |
| Dating.com | Pay-per-action model, alongside qualifying Free User access with contact restrictions. |
| Finya | Describes its features, including chat, as free without a subscription; funded by advertising. |
Information checked on 18 October 2026. Other services’ features may vary by country, account and current offering. Table links lead to official information; this comparison does not imply a partnership with the named brands.
Free registration and free conversations are different questions
Before choosing a service, follow the whole path from registration to replying to a message. Creating an account alone does not tell you which features are free. Check messages after matching, the first message to a new person and additional search filters separately. These are distinct functions and can have different rules.
At Meet & Connect, a profile, searching, invitations and ongoing text chat do not require a paid package. There are no billable chat minutes. Anti-spam protections still apply: free access does not permit mass harassment or attempts to bypass another person’s block.
A first message without waiting for a mutual like
Did a description or photo catch your attention? Send an invitation with a short message, provided that the person accepts new invitations. They decide whether to accept it. You do not need a like first, and simply swiping to another card never sends a message.
Mention something from the profile: a shared language, an interest or the question they have included. You can edit the suggested conversation starters before sending. An invitation does not oblige anyone to respond. A worthwhile conversation needs both people to want to take part.
Dating across Europe in a language you share
You may live in the Netherlands and want to speak Polish, live in France and prefer English, or look for German-speaking contacts in Belgium. Choose a European country and region, then select the language separately. Your connections need not be limited to a country’s official language.
Filters also cover town, age, profile type and intention. Start with country and language, then narrow the results. If there are few profiles in a small town, broaden the region. An empty result is not a reason to buy greater visibility: we do not sell that extra.
Discover →Conversation, friendship, a relationship or a meeting
Choose your intention in your profile and use the quick filters in Discover. You can say whether you are looking for a conversation, new connections, a relationship or a meeting. Browse one person at a time or switch to an overview of all profiles.
We do not assign people a made-up compatibility percentage. Shared languages and a description help you decide whether to make contact, but the choice is yours. Explain how you like to spend time and what you hope to find instead of assuming another person wants exactly the same thing.
Browse previews first, connect with an active profile
Guests can see public profiles and full photos shared by their owners. Profile owners choose whether to enable that visibility. Sending messages and reactions requires an account and an active community profile. Your existing IntiemComfort account is enough; you complete a separate community profile.
Add several photos, a description and a question to help someone start a conversation. Photos are moderated. Demonstration profiles are labelled and illustrate the features; they are not real people looking for a connection. They do not indicate how many real conversation partners are available.
Privacy, control over contact and a shared decision to meet
Text chat keeps the focus on your conversation, without ads or fees for the next message. Stored messages are encrypted. You can report any received message, describe a specific passage and immediately block the other person. Automatic filters stop recognisable prohibited links, bank details and contact information.
The meeting option is part of your conversation. Choose a time and public venue from the available list; new venue proposals go through moderation. The other person must accept and receives the address details after agreeing. Venue checks and protective tools support safer introductions; continue to assess the situation and respect each other’s boundaries.
Questions about alternatives to dating apps
Do I need likes before I can write?
No. An active profile can send a free first-message invitation to someone accepting invitations. Ongoing chat starts when they accept.
Does free chat mean chatting without an account?
No. Guests can browse public previews. Messaging and reactions require an account and an active profile.
Do I need to install an app?
No. Meet & Connect runs in your phone or computer browser. Open the website and sign in.
Can I look for friendship instead of a relationship?
Yes. Choose the relevant intention and describe what you want. The community supports different kinds of connections between adults.
Are there other free dating services?
Yes, including Finya. Choose a contact model, languages and availability of people that suit you, rather than relying on a “free” label alone.
Is it really free and without ads?
Every community feature is and will remain free, however much we grow. No subscriptions, credits or advertisements in chat.
How does the meeting option work?
Suggest a time and a public venue in your conversation. We check new venue proposals and addresses before making them available. Both people must agree; the other person receives the address details after accepting.
Can I report a single sentence from a conversation?
Yes. Report the message containing it and identify the particular sentence in your explanation. Messages are stored encrypted; moderation receives the reported message needed to assess the issue.
How do you earn money, and who pays for the servers?
We do not earn money from this community. We fund servers, safety and development ourselves, because bringing people together is our passion.